it was only true that if he had seen Mrs.Newsome coming he would instinctively have jumped up to walk away a little.He would have come round and back to her bravely, but he would have had first to pull himself together.She abounded in news of the situation at home, proved to him how perfectly she was arranging for his absence, told him who would take up this and who take up that exactly where he had left it, gave him in fact chapter and verse for the moral that nothing would suffer.It filled for him, this tone of hers, all the air; yet it struck him at the same time as the hum of vain things.This latter effect was what he tried to justify--and with the success that, grave though the appearance, he at last lighted on a form that was happy.He arrived at it by the inevitable recognition of his having been a fortnight before one of the weariest of men.If ever a man had come off tired Lambert Strether was that man; and hadn't it been distinctly on the ground of his fatigue that his wonderful friend at home had so felt for him and so contrived? It seemed to him somehow at these instants that, could he only maintain with sufficient firmness his grasp of that truth, it might become in a manner his compass and his helm.What he wanted most was some idea that would simplify, and nothing would do this so much as the fact that he was done for and finished.If it had been in such a light that he had just detected in his cup the dregs of youth, that was a mere flaw of the surface of his scheme.He was so distinctly fagged-out that it must serve precisely as his convenience, and if he could but consistently be good for little enough he might do everything he wanted.
Everything he wanted was comprised moreover in a single boon--the common unattainable art of taking things as they came.He appeared to himself to have given his best years to an active appreciation of the way they didn't come; but perhaps--as they would seemingly here be things quite other--this long ache might at last drop to rest.He could easily see that from the moment he should accept the notion of his foredoomed collapse the last thing he would lack would be reasons and memories.Oh if he SHOULD do the sum no slate would hold the figures! The fact that he had failed, as he considered, in everything, in each relation and in half a dozen trades, as he liked luxuriously to put it, might have made, might still make, for an empty present; but it stood solidly for a crowded past.It had not been, so much achievement missed, a light yoke nor a short load.[sic] It was at present as if the backward picture had hung there, the long crooked course, grey in the shadow of his solitude.It had been a dreadful cheerful sociable solitude, a solitude of life or choice, of community; but though there had been people enough all round it there had been but three or four persons IN it.Waymarsh was one of these, and the fact struck him just now as marking the record.Mrs.Newsome was another, and Miss Gostrey had of a sudden shown signs of becoming a third.Beyond, behind them was the pale figure of his real youth, which held against its breast the two presences paler than itself--the young wife he had early lost and the young son he had stupidly sacrificed.He had again and again made out for himself that he might have kept his little boy, his little dull boy who had died at school of rapid diphtheria, if he had not in those years so insanely given himself to merely missing the mother.It was the soreness of his remorse that the child had in all likelihood not really been dull--had been dull, as he had been banished and neglected, mainly because the father had been unwittingly selfish.This was doubtless but the secret habit of sorrow, which had slowly given way to time; yet there remained an ache sharp enough to make the spirit, at the sight now and again of some fair young man just growing up, wince with the thought of an opportunity lost.Had ever a man, he had finally fallen into the way of asking himself, lost so much and even done so much for so little? There had been particular reasons why all yesterday, beyond other days, he should have had in one ear this cold enquiry.His name on the green cover, where he had put it for Mrs.
Newsome, expressed him doubtless just enough to make the world--the world as distinguished, both for more and for less, from Woollett--ask who he was.He had incurred the ridicule of having to have his explanation explained.He was Lambert Strether because he was on the cover, whereas it should have been, for anything like glory, that he was on the cover because he was Lambert Strether.He would have done anything for Mrs.Newsome, have been still more ridiculous--as he might, for that matter, have occasion to be yet; which came to saying that this acceptance of fate was all he had to show at fifty-five.